Unglued: Making Wise Choices in the Midst of Raw Emotions Kindle Edition

I could not connect with Lysa..I honestly do not understand what is the big fuss about this book. I bought it for a bible study. It was difficult to read because it was boring. I honestly could not relate to her at all. She was losing her temper over towels. I dont know I cannot relate because I do not lose my temper over small things like that. I connect more with authors that have a dark past...now that is a story I want to read.. This made me feel like her life is not that difficult to be complaining about her children not putting away towels. I think I made my point. I will be selling it on Amazon not my type of book.

Is it obvious what attracted me to this book besides the lack of cost? Unglued is easily a word I can use to describe myself. Being an organized, detailed person, who thinks ahead and puts much thought into everything, the littlest things will tick me off. And I don't mean, oh I'm getting mad. It's more like instant boiling anger in the form of yelling and iffy language. Yes, everyone has their moments, but mine were daily and concentrated on my husband and kids. For a long time I just did what I could because it didn't seem there was anything I could do, the raw emotion was so instantaneous.Then I read Unglued and TerKeurst's explanations of how people's emotions work stuck with me. I have a combination of two types she discusses. With my family I am what she calls an exploder. Exploders hold nothing back. But, I knew that wasn't all of it because with friends, even if I do get mad, I don't explode on them. The other half of my personality is what TerKeurst calls stuffer. I stuff all negative emotions when dealing with friends and acquaintances and ignore them for as long as possible. Eventually a stuffer's feelings will explode, but it usually takes time. I found that I would take my stuffed feelings home and explode there. Why we take advantage of the ones we love most is beyond me.Unglued talks about other types of people as well as the negative consequences of raw emotion that you might not see coming. It really opened my eyes and although I don't always think in time to stop myself, I realize as I begin to rant or stuff that I need to stop and think. This is absolutely progress for me - "imperfect progress" as TerKeurst would say, but still progress.

This book really got me to thinking ...here I am nearly 70 years old, and I am still becoming unglued...a lot. This book has given me the "vehicle to ride in" toward being my best self..to honor God with EVERYTHING I say and do. Also to accept the free gifts of grace and forgiveness that are promised to me. I wish I could have had this book as a young mother ! I gave a copy to my daughter ...in hopes she can avoid the slippery slope I have as much as on.

I must admit, the only reason I bought this book was because it was .99 on Kindle. At the time of purchasing, I had just started reading The Best Yes. Typically, I have a few books going at one time with several on my nightstand and hundreds on my “to read” list. I began Unglued and was very eager to relate with Lysa like I had while devouring The Best Yes. Yes, Unglued was a great read, and I found myself relating to many of the circumstances that TerKeust describes; however, the book was full of her being angry at friends, family members, strangers, etc., with no actual solutions to managing meltdowns.I continued to read, because if I start something, especially if I pay for it, I will finish it. I even sat it down for a couple weeks. Finally, I picked it back up and continued to read. Perhaps it was because I needed a Lysa break or maybe the second part of the book is better, but when I began reading for the second time, I quickly finished the book in two settings.My biggest takeaway from Unglued is that these moments are opportunities to expand, grow, and extend our grace toward others. In addition, it is okay to be broken as long as we turn toward scripture and lean on God’s promises.

This book is not just good, it's LIFE CHANGING fantastic. She hits the nail on the head and it's such a relief to know that someone else totally gets it. It's not about being perfect overnight or even at all, it's about making imperfect progress. Love.

Great wisdom in this book- I took away a lot of information and hope to make my own imperfect progress.If you're struggling with becoming angry- bitter- jealous... unglued whether with kids, husband, co-worker etc... this book would be a great tool for you. Lysa always delivers some great books with helpful information. Changing my perspective and having a plan ahead of time to know how I'm going to react is my goal. Thanks Lysa!

Oh Lysa, she just gets it!If you want to feel like the moments where you lose it are normal, this is the book for you!If you want to learn how to not over-react in emotional situations, this is the book for you!If you want to know how to respond to others who are responding emotionally, this is the book for you!If you know someone with emotions, this is the book for you!If you HAVE emotions, this is the book for you!This is definitely in my top 5 most recommended books of all times. If you are debating if you should purchase this book or not, get it! You won't regret it!

Loved this book. Lysa is so open and honest showing that the people on the platform are just like the rest of us. They don't always have it all together. So refreshing. She gives real practical and spiritual applications on how to deal with our Unglued moments too. I don't think I've ever highlighted so many portions of a book. One of the best books I've read. You won't be disappointed with this book.

Excellent read.

We've all had days like this and while we hope the feeling goes away it is nice to hear about others who have felt the same way and ways to deal with it.

Great book with practical advice

Brilliant book